Seme/Seme & Uke/Uke Compatibility

- Don't Fu'ck With Me Seme -


Sadistic Seme -
The Sadistic Seme would not survive this relationship/friendship, if it was even possible. These two are natural enemies - the DFWM Seme has no respect whatsoever for the Sadistic Seme's ego and arrogant attitude.

Chibi Seme -
The DFWM Seme and the Chibi Seme can tend to be the loners of the seme personalities, and could easily have a friendship based on mutual respect and understanding. Anything further would require more compromise on the part of both these personalities than they are usually willing to give, as the Chibi Seme, despite their laid-back appearance, is not one to submit unquestioningly.

Opportunist Seme -
The DFWM Seme, being a straight-forward and honest personality, would have a difficult time tolerating the Opportunist Seme's tendency to play with words and manipulate. These two are social opposites as well - while the Opportunist Seme is perfectly at home with parties, crowds, and attention, the DFWM Seme tends to shun these to become the loner.

Romantic Seme -
These two Seme would most likely have no problem having a friendship out of mutual respect, so long as the DFWM Seme's quick temper doesn't offend the Romantic Seme too often. Even a Romantic Seme willing to compromise, however, should take care not to work too hard to make a relationship work, as this personality can tend to do.

DFWM Seme -
Two DFWM Seme are not likely to cross each other's paths except on strictly business association. Mutual respect is possible, but if mutual suspicion exists, any bystanders should take cover if these two happen to be in the same room.

-Bada'ss Uke -

Dramatic Uke -
These two personalities do share some similarities, and would have a basic understanding of each other, but they also follow two very different paths, craving very different experiences. The Badass Uke being more of a sensual loner, searching for the fire to claim them from the darkness, while the Dramatic Uke wants only to be a slave to another's will.

Flaming Uke -
Friendship between these two would be tricky. The Flaming Uke being much too competitive, jealous, and attention craving to have their spotlight stolen from them by the Badass Uke who is naturally skilled in drawing energy around themselves. Maybe not as competitive equals... but a friendship could exist between these two with a more mature sempai type Flaming Uke who could act as an advice giving protector to their sometimes reckless Badass Uke friend ~ of course, Badass Uke will only pretend to listen...

Clueless Uke -
A casual friendship could exist between these two - the Clueless Uke just needing to find a fantasy gaming world elaborately real enough to pull their Badass Uke friend in. Both personalities do enjoy gaming, music, art, and food, and could get along quite well ~ the Badass Uke keeping their friend entertained with their sometimes eccentric behavior, and the Clueless Uke providing entertainment with their wealth of knowledge about music, games, and internet.

Innocent Uke -
A classic kohai/sempai friendship here. The Innocent Uke should take care though not to be mesmerized by their Badass Uke friend so much that they try to push them into the seme role. Even though a Badass Uke may seem somewhat seme to such a gentle uke, they have no desire (and would never be satisfied) in acting the part of seme.

Badass Uke -
Possible trouble could come from mixing two of this personality together. Both understanding each other's dark side so well, but each only becoming more extreme in attitude and risk taking, as if wanting to push the other into taking on a seme role and taking control (even in friendship) ~ which isn't a likely thing for this uke.

- Chibi Seme -

Sadistic Seme -
An arrogant and overbearing Sadistic Seme does not make friends easily, and a Chibi Seme's revenge is swift and one you never see coming. The only way even a friendship can work is if the Sadistic Seme allows their Flaming traits to take over to let the Chibi Seme rule, which may be hard to do completely for a true Sadistic.

DFWM Seme -
The DFWM Seme and the Chibi Seme can tend to be the loners of the seme personalities, and could easily have a friendship based on mutual respect and understanding. Anything further would require more compromise on the part of both these personalities than they are usually willing to give, as the Chibi Seme, despite their laid-back appearance, is not one to submit unquestioningly.

Opportunist Seme -
These two Seme are likely to have a casual friendship, and could even have a bit of fun teaming up to prey on uke together. Close Chibi and Opportunist friends are ready to watch each other's back and throw a bit of supportive advice now and then.

Romantic Seme -
A Chibi Seme and Romantic Seme could be fast and loyal friends if they shared the same interests. A Romantic Seme friend would probably be able to keep the Chibi Seme out of some (but certainly not all) the trouble the Chibi Seme seeks out for themselves in search of adventure.

Chibi Seme -
Two Chibi Seme could have a fun friendship, so long as they take care not to get carried away with any "friendly" competition that could get grudges simmering under the surface.

- Flaming Uke -

Bada'ss Uke -
Friendship between these two would be tricky. The Flaming Uke being much too competitive, jealous, and attention craving to have their spotlight stolen from them by the Badass Uke who is naturally skilled in drawing energy around themselves. Maybe not as competitive equals... but a friendship could exist between these two with a more mature sempai type Flaming Uke who could act as an advice giving protector to their sometimes reckless Badass Uke friend ~ of course, Badass Uke will only pretend to listen...

Clueless Uke -
A friendship between these two would be very possible. The Flaming Uke's desire to talk and entertain would keep the Clueless Uke amused, even if they only half listen to everything their friend is going on about... And as long as the Flaming Uke kept their bossy side reigned in, these two could make a fun and entertaining team.

Innocent Uke -
A friendship could exist here, with the Flaming Uke being someone the Innocent Uke could go to for their more mature and experienced advice.

Dramatic Uke -
These two are really opposites in personality. The Flaming Uke could certainly make a project out of helping a Dramatic Uke friend, but once they realize it's a lost cause, would move on to something that gave them results.

Flaming Uke -
A rare friendship, as two Flaming Uke would likely be very competitive, jealous, and suspicious with each other.

- Opportunist Seme -

DFWM Seme -
The DFWM Seme, being a straight-forward and honest personality, would have a difficult time tolerating the Opportunist Seme's tendency to play with words and manipulate. These two are social opposites as well - while the Opportunist Seme is perfectly at home with parties, crowds, and attention, the DFWM Seme tends to shun these to become the loner.

Chibi Seme -
These two Seme are likely to have a casual friendship, and could even have a bit of fun teaming up to prey on uke together. Close Chibi and Opportunist friends are ready to watch each other's back and throw a bit of supportive advice now and then.

Romantic Seme -
While these two Seme can have similar tastes, it's possible some misunderstandings can arise. The Romantic Seme is likely to warn uke they know of the wiles of the Opportunist Seme, or the Romantic Seme themselves might fall victim to an Opportunist Seme masquerading as uke if they aren't too careful.

Sadistic Seme -
A smart Opportunist Seme should try to avoid the Sadistic Seme's presence if at all possible. Groveling to the "Master" isn't really all that fun...

Opportunist Seme-
Two Opportunist Seme are likely to see each other as rivals first and foremost. Even friends may resort to dirty tactics if they find their territory threatened.

- Clueless Uke -

Badass Uke -
A casual friendship could exist between these two - the Clueless Uke just needing to find a fantasy gaming world elaborately real enough to pull their Badass Uke friend in. Both personalities do enjoy gaming, music, art, and food, and could get along quite well ~ the Badass Uke keeping their friend entertained with their sometimes eccentric behavior, and the Clueless Uke providing entertainment with their wealth of knowledge about music, games, and internet.

Innocent Uke -
These two could make good friends (and even possibly more). The Clueless Uke and Innocent Uke would share many of the same interests.

Flaming Uke -
A friendship between these two would be very possible. The Flaming Uke's desire to talk and entertain would keep the Clueless Uke amused, even if they only half listen to everything their friend is going on about... And as long as the Flaming Uke kept their bossy side reigned in, these two could make a fun and entertaining team.

Dramatic Uke -
No real chance of friendship here. The Clueless Uke wants to have fun, and the Dramatic Uke would just wear them down mentally. Neither would have much understanding of each other, or want to hang out together, and would most likely avoid each other.

Clueless Uke -
Clueless Uke very easily get along with their own type, in friendship, and possibly more ~ neither really caring that much who fills what relationship role, as long as they are having a good time.

- Romantic Seme -

DFWM Seme -
These two Seme would most likely have no problem having a friendship out of mutual respect, so long as the DFWM Seme's quick temper doesn't offend the Romantic Seme too often. Even a Romantic Seme willing to compromise, however, should take care not to work too hard to make a relationship work, as this personality can tend to do.

Opportunist Seme -
While these two Seme can have similar tastes, it's possible some misunderstandings can arise. The Romantic Seme is likely to warn uke they know of the wiles of the Opportunist Seme, or the Romantic Seme themselves might fall victim to an Opportunist Seme masquerading as uke if they aren't too careful.

Sadistic Seme -
A Romantic Seme may be tempted, in their natural compassion, to "reform" a Sadistic Seme from their cruel and heartless ways. We only suggest this if you have something of a masochistic side. Long-term exposure to the Sadistic Seme may turn a Romantic Seme into a Dramatic Uke.

Chibi Seme -
A Chibi Seme and Romantic Seme could be fast and loyal friends if they shared the same interests. A Romantic Seme friend would probably be able to keep the Chibi Seme out of some (but certainly not all) the trouble the Chibi Seme seeks out for themselves in search of adventure.

Romantic Seme -
These two could get on very well in a perfect gentleman's friendship. Sunday morning golf outings are likely, and even a romantic relationship of convenience is possible.

- Innocent Uke -

Badass Uke -
A classic kohai/sempai friendship here. The Innocent Uke should take care though not to be mesmerized by their Badass Uke friend so much that they try to push them into the seme role. Even though a Badass Uke may seem somewhat seme to such a gentle uke, they have no desire (and would never be satisfied) in acting the part of seme.

Dramatic Uke -
These two are very unlikely to ever interact willingly...

Flaming Uke -
A friendship could exist here, with the Flaming Uke being someone the Innocent Uke could go to for their more mature and experienced advice.

Clueless Uke -
These two share many of the same interests (kitty ears and cupcakes anyone?) and could have a lasting friendship.

Innocent Uke -
Can anyone say - Best Friends Forever!! ~~<3<3<3

- Sadistic Seme -

DFWM Seme -
The Sadistic Seme would not survive this relationship/friendship, if it was even possible. These two are natural enemies - the DFWM Seme has no respect whatsoever for the Sadistic Seme's ego and arrogant attitude.

Chibi Seme -
An arrogant and overbearing Sadistic Seme does not make friends easily, and a Chibi Seme's revenge is swift and one you never see coming. The only way even a friendship can work is if the Sadistic Seme allows their Flaming traits to take over to let the Chibi Seme rule, which may be hard to do completely for a true Sadistic.

Romantic Seme -
A Romantic Seme may be tempted, in their natural compassion, to "reform" a Sadistic Seme from their cruel and heartless ways. We only suggest this if you have something of a masochistic side. Long-term exposure to the Sadistic Seme may turn a Romantic Seme into a Dramatic Uke.

Opportunist Seme -
A smart Opportunist Seme should try to avoid the Sadistic Seme's presence if at all possible. Groveling to the "Master" isn't really all that fun...

Sadistic Seme -
A Sadistic Seme may in fact find great pleasure in bringing another Sadistic Seme under their control, and bringing them to that delicate breaking point between Sadistic and Dramatic...

- Dramatic Uke -

Badass Uke -
These two personalities do share some similarities, and would have a basic understanding of each other, but they also follow two very different paths, craving very different experiences. The Badass Uke being more of a sensual loner, searching for the fire to claim them from the darkness, while the Dramatic Uke wants only to be a slave to another's will.

Flaming Uke -
These two are really opposites in personality. The Flaming Uke could certainly make a project out of helping a Dramatic Uke friend, but once they realize it's a lost cause, would move on to something that gave them results.

Clueless Uke -
No real chance of friendship here. The Clueless Uke wants to have fun, and the Dramatic Uke would just wear them down mentally. Neither would have much understanding of each other, or want to hang out together, and would most likely avoid each other.

Innocent Uke -
These two are very unlikely to ever interact willingly...

Dramatic Uke -
Two Dramatic Uke as friends... ? Possible, but we don't recommend it.